Produce Your Own Validation!

𝘈𝘴 𝘢 𝘎𝘪𝘳𝘭 𝘐 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘯 𝘌𝘹𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘝𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯. 𝘈𝘴 𝘢 𝘞𝘰𝘮𝘢𝘯, 𝘐 𝘗𝘳𝘰𝘥𝘶𝘤𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘖𝘸𝘯! 💁🏽‍♀️

Growing up, especially as women, we can often learn from others around us, our family and society to seek validation from external sources. Whether it’s our parents, teachers, siblings, a boss or even our friends, we often rely on and look for the “good job” or the approval of others to determine how we feel about ourselves.

Especially now with Social Media, the dependency on validation from our peers (and even people we don’t know) is so tempting, yet so dangerous.

Relying on others to approve of you, your values, your lifestyle, your dreams, etc. - can often hold us back from being who we truly are. If you fear the opinions, judgements, and disapproval of others, then you may be playing small, editing who you are and limiting your endless potential.

External Validation may bring temporary moments of satisfaction and may stroke your ego, but they are based on others perceptions of you and what’s important is how YOU feel about yourself. We have been taught that things like your appearance, income, material possessions, job titles, accomplishments, etc. determine our worth, but the reality is- YOU ARE WORTHY JUST AS YOU ARE!  Don’t put your feelings of worth, confidence, and self love in the hands of someone else.

Instead, let’s focus on 𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗢𝘂𝗿 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝗕𝗮𝗰𝗸 and Producing our own Self love & Confidence! 🤩

Reflect on the amazing person that you are and remind yourself of the beauty and strength you possess within. Allow yourself to be proud of that, give yourself permission to be BIG, produce your own SHINE and live freely! No more dependency on the external world, self-love & self-acceptance is an INSIDE job!

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY ENOUGH & No other person on this planet is uniquely like you!💕 Celebrate that girl!